First day
So, on Tuesday 25th September 2012 I was just getting myself together following the death of my beloved son and the subsequent horrors which ensued and I realised that the weather was quite dreadful with high winds and torrential rain.
For some time we had been advising the Council that the footpath which bordered the boundary of our side garden was in need of urgent action and others in the village had also reported the same. There were cracks in the bitumen surface of the path which were widening by the day and although a Council worker was viewing the retaining wall and path on a weekly basis, the constant rain and wind was making us a bit nervous on top of everything else. My lovely OH had only returned to work the previous day, having spent as much time as he could with me helping with the clearing of Si's flat, the paperwork and the funeral and both of us were trying to return to some semblance of normality.
The Council chap came to view the wall at around 11.45 am and I had a quick word with him. I then thought about checking such things as my bank account and other stuff on the computer which would get me going with small steps to a normal life again. Luckily the room where we have our computers is at the top of the house as I had only been there about five minutes when I heard an noise which I have likened to a shelf falling from a wall. It is hard to explain the noise which was a slow rattling sound and very loud. For the first time in my adult life I uttered an expletive I did not know that I knew and then rushed about trying to ascertain the source of the noise.
When I got to the kitchen/diner this was the sight which greeted me.